I am in the process of redefining and refining my goals as I am beginning to think that the twin and the living situation (we are separated now) have more to do with this than my W and my issues with each other (Because are two years together and 1 yr of M really long enough for 2 ppl to be at odds like this??)
As for GAL I recently got promoted and have made a renewed effort at being enthusiastic about my job, I go to an IC, been reading more in general, staying off the internet and increasing the intensity of my physical activities, been outside a lot, and I have also been re-aquainting myself with old friends as well.
As for the twin the one time I did get to talk to my W for a long time in person I explained to her that I wanted to talk to her alone. I have not said anything about her getting in the way of our MR. Another piece of interesting info is one of my friends is actually kind of seeing the twin. Apparently, she had been asking a lot about my whereabouts and how I was doing. My friend put a stop to that thankfully.
