Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
I was gonna predict that Thursday she'd be back to her old self, but I didn't want to be so cynical and nor be a buzzkiller.

Same ol' pattern.

Puppy


But it wasn't the same old pattern until EGF returned to work.

Now there could be a number of other things that are messin with her, PMS, S20 needed MORE money at school, etc, but it just seems quite coincidental that EGF is not at work for almost two weeks and the normal pattern didn't play out, until EGF came back to work.

For the two weeks EGF wasn't at work and there was very limited contact with her, W was a different person. But she returns yesterday and all the sudden, W is quiet, not engaged at all, nothing.

And this morning I sent her an IM asking her if she found anyone who wanted some tickets to a show we have for Saturday night that we can't use and it took forever for her to respond. No big deal, she's probably busy. She finally responds. I asked her how her day was going. Long pause. Fine, quiet. Me: You busy? Long pause. Not really. Me: Ok, I won't bug you. No response. A while later, me: Have I done something to make you angry? (OK, I know I probably shouldn't have asked that). Long pause. No, I'm not angry. And then she signed out of IM.

So who knows WTF is up with her? But I can't control her moods. And S17 and I are going golfing, so it's all good.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.