Tim, Just tweek your mindest for yourself. You are doing the work, making positive changes, acknowledging your role, and being a better man. It looks to me that you have a expectation that your W will start coming around which causes pressure. Just love her the best you can because you are so strong and confident in who you are that it just a gift to her while she sorts things out. I think it is a matter of trust, she wants to come to you but is scared. Just be the best you can standing and holding out this gift you have for her until she comes to you to open it. You can handle it.
Cheers
Thanks Coach,
Most of the time I am good at having no expectations and giving her the time to sort things out but I have my moments of frustration and doubt and that is what causes me to be impatient and want to push the issue. I know I can handle it its just sometimes I need to vent and get it out of my head and off my chest and let my friends here slap me upside the head so I can see things straight and to give me a little advice and guidance.
