Tim, Just tweek your mindest for yourself. You are doing the work, making positive changes, acknowledging your role, and being a better man. It looks to me that you have a expectation that your W will start coming around which causes pressure. Just love her the best you can because you are so strong and confident in who you are that it just a gift to her while she sorts things out. I think it is a matter of trust, she wants to come to you but is scared. Just be the best you can standing and holding out this gift you have for her until she comes to you to open it. You can handle it.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
