One of my boundaries has always been if I'm being treated fairly
That can be very unhealthy. How do you decide if you are treated fairly? Do you treat everyone fairly? Who judges you? Define fair. Do you think the world treats you fairly? Do the work on yourself CIPA. You constantly look to find out what is wrong with your W and if she would just fix it then everything will be fine for you. Seek first to understand then be understood.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
