How Do You Forgive?

[eternaloptimist]

EA,

Well, I guess we'll find out soon enough if your husband was sincere in wanting to end it with her, or if he was merely afraid he was going to contribute to her losing her job. Once he finds out she's already LOST it, you might want to be prepared for him taking a turn for the worse with you. Maybe not.

Puppy

Oh, wise one---could you elaborate more on what you mean here? Do you mean that, if he finds out she lost her job, he might start up the EA again? H told me this week that he didn't care if I reported her, that the relationship wasn't as strong or as important to him as I think it was, that he doesn't even think about her.