I've read parts of the "NOT Just Friends" book and ITA that he is doing all of the normal things someone in an EA does. I will never excuse what he did. But he's taking the EA and putting it in the garbage can b/c, according to him, before the EA he wanted a divorce. I know this is rewriting the history again, but we have had problems for years. So there is some truth to the pre-EA unhappiness in our marriage. Unfortunately, I cannot deny that. Now he says we still have all of our marriage problems sans the EA.
Therapist was TERMINATED last Friday! H shows no indication of knowing this.
What I can't understand now is why he still DOES NOT want to work on the marriage? I think he's having a MLC. I remain adamant that I am staying in the house, son is going to go back to his awesome school next year, and if H wants out, he has to move out. Meanwhile, I'm continuing to lose weight, work on my career, might even consider going on platonic dates with some hot Scottish, Irish or British guy (if I can find one!) if H remains in limbo land, decorate the house, and BE HAPPY!
Me 39, H 41 M 17, T 21 Son, 4 Bomb 2.09, Two EAs Separated 8.4.09 My Long Story and First Postings
