Just learned that my W is back in the A with the OM from three years ago. His W filed for D a couple of weeks ago and he moved out. A friend of mine saw them together at a bar just a short distance from his new apartment. She denies it, but my friend actually spoke to them both and I know that he is not lying. The sad thing is that she was doing this while I was out of town with the kids and while she is supposed to be out of town for work. Now she is back to her lying cheating game. What to do? I am tired of fighting and arguing. Just a couple of weeks ago she bought a new car without consulting me. A week or so before that we had an arguement over what I cannot recall, but what I do recall is her telling me how she doesn't like me and wants another man. But then the day before I left we ML andn while I have been gone she has been calling everyday and even once said ILU to me. It's as if she has one foot in the door and another out the door. I don't think I should leave the house because that is where the kids are. So do I ask her to leave? I feel I should tell her to have her bags packed and moved out before I get home. How fair is it that she is cheating on me while I am gone, so obviously won't stop, and then I have to go home to her with the knowledge of this?
