Well, I guess we'll find out soon enough if your husband was sincere in wanting to end it with her, or if he was merely afraid he was going to contribute to her losing her job. Once he finds out she's already LOST it, you might want to be prepared for him taking a turn for the worse with you. Maybe not.
I'm glad she lost her job. She NEEDED to. And you should feel good that your confrontation of her led to it. The woman is a PREDATOR, and needs to get professional help herself.
I wouldn't concern yourself with this:
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A few bumps here and there and one big fight the night after our son was sick. I was tired and lashed out---big mistake. He was supposedly still "deciding" on whether or not he wanted to get divorced or work on the marriage. After the fight, he snapped his fingers and said "I'm done. Now you'll never know what my decision would have been." [Insert numerous expletives here!]
This is purely infidelity SCRIPT, and happens, I would estimate, more than 95% of the time. If you doubt it, just start a thread called "NOW You've Done it!" and see how many LBSs have heard almost word-for-word the EXACT SAME THING.
