Did she say she'd push for immediate divorce? Or did she kind of imply that she'd see where things with OM goes and kind of let you know? Not a great proposition for you.
From what I read from nds above it seems this is the stance she is taking by not 'ruling out' physical contact or even sex. To me, this is unacceptable.(but that's for me and my boundaries) She's basically saying, 'I'm looking for someone else, but in the meantime I'll use you as the fallback guy. When I do find that person I'll be leaving'. This is crazy and just another example of the stupid rationalization that a WAS uses. It amazes me still the stuff my W pulls out of her hat. It's incredible how unbelievable irrational they act and talk.
As I see more of this, and based on my own experience with my W's behavior, I am becoming more convinced that there actually is a 'possessing' entity that enters them and drives them in the direction they are moving. It's weird, but when I look at my W I sometimes get the feeling or intuitive sense that this is what's really happening. It's like something else is in the drivers seat and compelling them to act so irrationally. I guess this is synonymous with the 'fog' that is ofter reffered to here on the board.
nds where are you? Don't make the mistake I've made in the past and move away from the board when it seems you need the most support.
MySitch Me-47 STBXW-41 D-5 S-8 ILYBNILWY-01/08 Want a D- 01/09 Physical Sep-01/10 D filed-06/10 Got 50% custody=09/11 Ride that wave!
