Thanks for looking out. I know that is a hazzard I need to watch out for that I'm so blinded by my feelings and zeal to save the marriage that I lose sight of protecting myself
I'm going to run through with my lawyer before I sign anything
We're actually back to "artificial harmony" mode. We talked this morning (I called and handled it like a friend call) to see how she was doing. She talked about work and about a bad dream she had and various other non-Relationship things. I just listened (ie from the NUTs book). We joked about a couple of things.
She then text me a few pics and we "texted" back and forth a bit about funny things
So I will see what she comes back relative to getting her lawyer under "control"
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13