We are hanging in there. My wife -- after refusing for 15 years to any kind of individual counseling -- has now eagerly SOUGHT ONE OUT (came recommended to her from a friend), has had her first session, and goes again next week. She's actually EXCITED about it, and looking forward to her next session!
This is HUGE for us. We agreed the last time we called the D off that the order of priority was:
1. IC for her 2. MC for us 3. IC for me (since I'd already done some of this, and was struggling less than she was)
I'm hoping this woman can help her understand herself better, why she's struggling with finding contentment in her "everyday" married life, and how she can deal with some of her issues.
