I think that sadly the majority of people here don't end up getting a second chance like you have. I may get slammed for this, but most of the WAS are going and not looking back for the most part. Mine is gone, but wants to continue playing with my head. VD's W is fence sitting. Blindsided's H is like mine. On and on....There are some M's that reconcile, but for the most part I don't think they do.

Ok, ducking for the huge 2x4.

I just realized how hard it must be for you two to work together as well as M. Its like you really don't have your own space and when you come home and vent the other person knows exactly what you are talking about rather than just be a sounding board.

Glad you are one of the lucky ones though Kass!

Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!