Sorry but I do not share in your hope. I read your e-mail and the feeling I got, and this is just my personal opinion and can be way off the mark, is what she is saying is,"This was both our decision so don't put the blame on me" attitude.
Look it doesn't really matter because the reality is unchanged. She is definitely NOT READY to move forward as a couple. So you need to back up and slowly build up the non-confrontational visits.
Don't ask her out. Don't even flirt for now. It's out of the question.
Just back right up until her temper and defensiveness has died down. Concentrate on you again. Putting focus on you will take the pressure off her.
Have fun this weekend, Kev.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
