Newly separated...spouse left, 4th thread

[antlers]

"You can work on your marriage without pursuing and live your life without harming your marriage. Your every move is being watched by your wife. This is when you get to lead." - Coach


To paraphrase another poster on this board..."a reconciliation won't happen unless you put the work in yourself, take the pressure off of your spouse, and put some time and distance between the two of you. Then, it's possible."


Just wanted to post these on my thread for my benefit, and for the benefit of others who read it. It's such good advice, and it's always helpful to remind ourselves of it...especially when things seem darkest.