Let her know that you know what is going on, that you refuse to live in an open marriage and expose her. Is OM M? If so, expose to OMW.
Refuse to play into the fantasy and secretiveness of the whole thing and don't get emotional. Come from a position of truth and let her know what you are going to do if this continues. Don't make idle threats. Be prepared to say what you mean and do EXACTLY what you say. Not out of spite, because its the right thing to do.
JMHO...
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
