You guys are cracking me up here! AOS-men aren't all bad. I got a ceiling fan installed tonight free of charge... Not that I offered to pay anything, I didn't ask him to do it!
Mish I am working through the Boundaries book. Although re. the marriage, a lot of it is stuff I should have done before that doesn't really pertain now that he moved out. Oh well. It will help with other people in my life. I actually said "NO" when I got a call asking me to work the baseball game (ticket taker) tomorrow night. I knew I didn't have time so instead of trying to cram it in, I just said 'No.' And guess what? Nobody died!!
Not that I offered to pay anything, I didn't ask him to do it!
