Where to start, haven't posted in a few days, been busy at work. On days off now seven days to be exact. I've had a few vodkas so I may ramble a bit, my apoligizies , sorry can't even spell.
Well I have had three good days in a row ...Woo Haa. Ever since I relinquished control of the whole scenario things have been good, really good.
My W came to bed a couple of nights ago and I looked at her and said "Hey, why don"t you take off all your clothes and we'll do that thing where we both feel really good?"
She started to laugh and said,"Oh, need to get a little relief do you?"
Then she said, "I don't know maybe we could, what do you think?"
So then I finally said "Just get in the bed and let's do this!"
So yeah' that was fun, the humor thing has always worked well with us and we haven't seemed to lose it yet.
Also being a little bit assertive seemed to help too!
K gotta go W is presently coming down the driveway.
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Me 42, Her 34 M 3yrs, T 8yrs D 5 S 3 S 2 ILYBINILWY 02/09 Sleeping in same bed/no intimacy "I,m done" her words: 05/28/09