I can totally understand you being afraid and people telling you to protect yourself. It is scary very scary, what if his changes aren't real, what if he starts drinking again...Those are a very real possibility...BUT...What if he has changed how great could your lives together be?
Based on what you've posted he's doing great, will there be backslides that make you rethink things, of course but they will become fewer and farther between. WHEN things work out everyone that said you should give up will be so happy for you and support you because you'll be happy and that's what they want...For YOU to be happy.
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Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
