Oh I definitely am not planning on dating. Although when my W and I were dating and had broken up (her call) when she found out that I had a GF, she started crying and said we were on a break and that she couldn't believe I found someone so fast.
Right. Maybe the lesson there is that she wants to be so special, so cherished, that really, no one else could get on the radar screen. This is great intel for you! That would be one of the problems I would have had if Coach had dated. So sad at being overlooked by my H that I felt I had to leave, only to find that he was very capable of moving on. Ouch.
Originally Posted By: stuck808
Sometimes I do wish that she'd take a hard look at me and think...what the hell am I doing? If I don't stay in my M, some other lucky girl is going to get him.
You can achieve this, I think, without crossing any lines. Be the best unStuck you can be. She'll notice. And you don't want her to notice just b/c you're sitting with someone else. That's not gonna stick - you know that. You want solid this time.
I imagine most of us "wish for" what's going to cost us the least with the largest return. LBS and WAS, too. The truth that Coach and I have learned - THE hard way - is that everyone has to pay tuition here and there are no bargains. Bargain = new screen name on DB in 3-4 years.
Cheers ~~
Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08
