I was one of the negative ones in the beginning. Only because back then your H was just starting his program, but was not being very nice in his demands regarding you and your kids. There was alot of negative going on at that time and not much positive. Now, things have come a long way. Your H has more time of sobriety under his belt and genuinely seems to want to work on the M. Yes, there are trips along the way but overall you are making forward progress! YEAH!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!