How are you dealing with the pain? You are so my hero. I am bracing myself for another bomb, as my wife does not seam to be having any revelations concerning our relationships and that she was in that part of the country where the OM is..she said she was not going to see him so I trust her, but she was in a church praying about us. I don't think she has any good news judging by her voice. She was married once before and was unhappy, so she cheated on her husband to get out of the relationship, then I am trying to keep hope, but I feel my world crushing around me. I have that feeling of extreme anxiety, very tough, and not a comforting feeling at the moment.


ME 43
Her 37
Married 6/98
2 sons 8 and 3
Love em tons
Seperated March 20th
Her- not sure
Me willing to make changes