WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 10

[confusedinpa]

Had a good time while my wife and I took our 7 year old to get his cast off. We laughed and talked and I did the eye contact thing that was covered in Stuck's thread

Good interaction until I got home

There was a letter from her lawyer requesting a hearing for custody

It was a WTF moment

I know I should have calmed down before I called but I called her to ask what was going on. She said that was sent out before she talked to him yesterday. I told her it was dated yesterday

She said that her lawyer now understands what we are trying to do so she's got it under control

I told her that I don't trust her lawyer and feels like he is taking advantage of her and I.

She said that she didn't trust me. I cut her off and said that we talked about that already but what we are talking about right now is what her lawyer is doing

I don't know what he is trying to do but I had thought she said she was going to be fair about this but I don't feel like I am being treated fairly.
If she can't get him under control I will get a guy to get this straightened out

She said that she doesn't want me yelling at her. I said was frustrated about her lawyer and wasn't yelling at her. She said it felt like it.

She then said she had enough stress from work and this situation that she doesn't want to deal with all this

I told her this is stressful for all of us

She said that she can't take this anymore and is hanging up

I think it is truly over. I held onto my NUTs but think I lost the war

Right now I don't care

I'm mad and angry that this situation spiraled out of control so fast

I will have the boys call her to say goodnite as I do not want to punish the boys over it. It will be tough for me to stay friendly but I will try