Hey Karen, yes, they are missing out. They think they are finally having 'fun' now but missing all the best parts of life, you are so right.
Oh well, can only save myself at the moment, I can't save my H.
Well said. You are doing so well it's hard for me to comment much, as I'm not really adding. I'll say the breast cancer also reminds us NOT to take idiot MLC behavior so seriously that we literally let it kill US AND gives us perspective on the MIL feeling bad about "her" time with kids gone...yeah, too bad, so sad..." I mean, bfd, there are REAL problems in the world so don't spend 2 more minutes on that one...
But I feel for her too as she loves those kids and until idiot son screwed up, YOU felt close to her and she's losing YOU as well and I am sure she does love you as well. (Maybe this is b/c I have a son but no, he's not in a R!!) b/c I think maybe b/c she thought supporting her son was supporting her grandkids.??
Oh well, who knows? Who cares? It's all about YOU now, my friend. How's YOUR LIFE AND KIDS?
(( j ))
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