That's an easy one for me (your W may be different)...
I would have been VERY hurt by that. I believe I would have still gone back - but it would have been just one more hurdle for us to clear while piecing things together. And we already had enough to deal with. One more thing...is one more thing.
I don't recommend it. My .02 ~~~ be careful.
Cheers ~~~
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