Greek,

Hmmm. I get what you're saying. So in other words, you saw the changes and took a while for you to see if the changes were real.

I guess in my sitch, there were so many random things that she said was wrong with me (most not true), I was trying to change EVERYTHING. Even now, I second guess myself in wondering if a change I'm doing now is what was wrong in the first place.

Many of the WASs here have literally told their spouses what was wrong with them and the R. My W, not so much. She really doesn't like talking about what's going on in her head even before the bomb. It's like guessing what's in a gift box just from the sound of it.

Thank you for your answers though.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER