Jumping in (1st post)

[Gardener]

Okay, here goes. After this reply I think I'm gonna set up my second TelCoach session.

stilly, I do trust the source (dil). Just don't know W's true state of mind. Pre-db, I asked dil "As a woman, do you think there's nothing left that I can do? That's it over?" DIL said no, not by a long shot, W doesn't know what to do. However, next day W asked for D, so I dunno.

Benign contact/date might be a good idea, but after a only a week of DBing I wonder if I should just stay the course and be patient.

When confronted at MC parking lot, W als said it was "one final session".

Didn't want to go here, but:
MC sees couples in office some days of week, in home office the other days.
I saw MC by myself only once alone, in office (week before the final "bum's rush" session).
W mentioned on two (three?) occasions having seen him individually.
At last session, W made comment about oriental rug on MC's office floor, "Every time I see the rug in your den I wonder is it the same as or just similar to this one."
I hate to think the thought. W is moral and upstanding, etc. She'd never...Well, she'd never leave me or ask for a divorce either...

But in my heart of hearts, that is one thing she'd never do.

Time to schedule that TelCoaching.