First Timer

[wolverine1997]

My wife and I did lots of things together and I always considered her before making decisions. She feels that I am argumentative with her but often won't speak up when dealing with others.

For the most part I don't insist on having my way. I usually go with the flow don't mind doing things that she likes. At times though I probably do pout when I don't have my way. But rarely do I insist on having things my way.

Before the kids she was generally happy. She liked to spend lots of time with her family. She liked to travel and entertain. LOVED shopping and spending money. She liked decorating the house. She has always been somewhat selfish but very loving. She rarely finished things that she started.

What drew us together? I would have to say the fact that we are opposite in some ways. I think that we compliment each other well. Her strengths are my weaknesses and vice versa.

The last time I saw her happy was before the assault a few years ago. The last time I saw her truly happy was before we started dealing with my sons autism. She became very stressed out after he was born. Between the assault and the autism she hasn't been very happy in a long time.