You did very well and I'm glad he's showing emotion AFTER you said you wished him happiness and did not guilt him OR pursue him.
Please do NOT pursue him at this point. I'd say stay mysterious. HE IS NOTICING...and he's relaxed enough around you he may actually talk with the kids and see what he is missing without the pressure of you thinking he's changing his mind. He'll pull away then , imo. I can't see how detaching hurts you when HE KNOWS you love him. You just told him again and he sees that you were hurt BUT yes you are a good catch and you are moving on...he's not going to say to himself, "Gee maybe I made a mistake BUT now it's too late since she's getting a life..."
If he wants back in, you will know. Keep on GAL and moving forward and being the author of your life. Regardless of what he does/thinks/feels/says/ he IS noticing, no matter the outcome, to some extent, it is working. It's the best you could reaslistically hope for at this point. (Meaning, seeds were planted...so don't pursue. Be interested and interesting...b/c you are a woman only a fool would leave....)
((( j )))
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