See, I'm on the fence about going dark. I think each situation is very very unique despite the fact we all are fighting for our marriages.... You know her Gardner. Does she want space, or would it be better if you initiated some contact, to let her know you are still there and thinking about her? I kept my rings on. My message was/is I am married. Until the ink is dry, you gave these to me and I love them so I will wear them as it's my right to....for now. My H never wore a ring so that was nothing for me to be concerned or hurt about if he were to take his off. I think the second hand information probably came from a reliable source. Maybe it's time to find a new MC. If she's confused capitalize on it. Show her you both can be happy. Start DBing. But I dont' think you are in the Last Resort phase by any means.
