Thanks for your insight. I think the eye contact thing is more a matter of trust or confidence for my W. When she feels comfortable...contact. Not comfortable...no contact.
Drives me nuts though because even in the beginning of all this talk of her wanting to leave, she wouldn't look at me but would sound just P.O'd.
As a whole my W doesn't like drama or confrontation. When she told me she wanted out, that was it. When I asked her why, she would say that we discussed it already or that she told me why when at the time she didn't.
When you were wanting out, was it a done deal for you in your mind? Did you not even want to face Coach and the sitch in general?
It's been a long time since I read yours and Coach's sitch. I remember reading it when I first got here and it was so inspirational and helped me to decide to stand for my M.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
