Newly separated...spouse left, 4th thread

[antlers]

Dear Antlers,

I come across your postings to newcomers to the board and you sound so strong and I know you have grown as a person in a great way. You are so good for people here and I hope you will continue to work hard and keep giving good advice to newcomers. Nothing gives us wisdom like learning from the School of Hard Knocks. You have learned a lot and that experience and knowledge can be a guide to many people here.

As you see, there will always be bumps along the road, but I am confident that you, Antlers, are going to be just fine. You sound so different from the way you did when you first arrived here. I am proud of you. You are evidence of a man who was determined to change! Nobody can say it can't be done b/c you have proved otherwise.

I will talk to you later. Take care and continue to GAL!

Sandi

Hey Sandi.

Thanks for your kind words. I'm doin' better, and I am a better man! Whatever progress I've made...YOU certainly had a lot to do with it...as well as all of the other posters on this board. Thanks to all so far! I am committed to continue to work hard...value, respect, and compassion...for myself as well as for others. Strong, powerful, secure, confident, and assertive...these are things I'm working toward for myself too!

I'm confident that I'll be fine too Sandi...regardless how things turn out. I hope I get another chance though! I am alot different now, even though there are bumps along the road. I was/am determined to change. I know it can be done. I appreciate you Sandi.

I look forward to hearing from you. I hope things are well with you.

TTYL,

antlers