Hi future, I would want to go to disneyworld too! Is she sure that shes going to actually get this job? Im not sure that I would take a vacation before I started, but Ive had some pretty bad job starting experiences lately, until that first paycheck comes, Im not convinced that I actually have the job!

Im torn about this. If she is still involved with the OM then this could be cake eating. I wouldnt want to go on the vacation with her if thats the case, but wouldnt it be nice to be part of this memory for the kids? Phew. Its a tough one. When do you have to make a decision? Did you have your serious talk? Im not sure that it would help anything right now either. She isnt thinking clearly, so you have to question how productive a talk would be.

Anyway, good luck!

I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...