I think if the apology was real and truly heart-felt then it would be one thing and might even help the betrayed spouse to have some peace of mind that the OP wasn't still lurking out there. If it is not something that is truly about healing or forgiveness, then no. Its more self-serving BS and would only do more harm than good. I think every situation is different and it depends on what went on and how much time had past before you could really make a good call. I know in my case that she could apologize and put and ad in the paper and it wouldn't mean anything to me and never will. She has and continues to create misery for me and my kids and I wouldn't walk across the street to piss on her is she was on fire. But thats just me. I'm not bitter, just forgiveness challeneged.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
