Just want to say good luck to everyone in their quest for a better and more fullfilling marriage. Last night my wife and I had another fight like we do most times when we talk now and she said she's done - for good. No more trying. Hates her life with me and she's been miserable the entire marriage - says it's all been bad. I know it isn't a bluff. We are done. I expect I will be getting an official divorce proposal in the next couple weeks.
I feel OK. I'm comfortable that I tried my best. I'm dissapointed but comfortable with the fact I failed. She is right that our marriage and family life is very unsatifactory. I've come to realize/feel that I don't have much left to give and that I've lost most of my feelings for her. It is best we part.