BobbiJo, I'm going to Disney World in FL. I hear you about the boundries thing. This is one of my many weak areas, I know. I will look into these books when I return and no, my wife is not going with us. Thanks very much for your input, greatly appreciated.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!