No you won't get closure, not until he's ready. That's what I think from mine anyway.

But I will say, D went through Tuesday, morning was rough and all through court. But after seeing my XW's emotionless face through it and then spending the evening with family and friends afterward, I awoke Wednesday to feeling of relief and it still continues.

for what it's worth.

Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11