I agree with you Puppy to some extent...it is B.S. But I also know that what's best for D3 as well as myself is for W to get the help she needs to get past her issues and to be happy. No matter what happens in the divorce D3 will still have W in some form in her life and she will ultimately be one of her role models. I would hope for the sake of that for W to come to terms with everything and turn out to be a positive one rather than a negative one.