I've also scheduled a trip to the beach with the boys without him. He knows I wanted to do it, but I'm guessing he thinks I won't go through with it. But I am. Booked it this morning. And we'll have fun, no moping around that week for sure!
Excellent!
I like your attitude (and that you didn not apologize!)about his anger with regards to ow. He can believe what he likes, but the responsibility for his mess sits squarely on his shoulders. Of course her H is upset/angry. Was he thinking there would be a different outcome? Wait, scratch that, he isn't thinking.
Detaching is hard. It takes time. I still struggle with it at times. Sadly, the thing that helped me the most is some serious difficulties with D14 (I have 2 D's one is 17). I made me see things in a different light. While I am aware that what I see is still distorted, I work on clarity.
My day is ok. Slow. Trying not to get busted doing this at work
So when do you go to the beach? Got plans for the weekend?
