You might find it interesting to note that neither my SIL or my W has gone to see my BIL's headstone. I said something about that when we were able to catch up a week ago. My W was adament that she didn't want to see the headstone and seemed almost panicked when she expressed her dis-interest. I really can't believe that my dead BIL's own W hasn't gone to see his headstone yet.
Also, today on Facebook my W changed her R status from M to It's complicated (haha).. I wasn't too torn up about that as she basically is telling everyone who reads it "I am really confused.." I don't really want to change anything on my blogs or Facebook because one of my 180's is to not be on the internet too much. That was a minor problem in our R too but lately while I have been cutting back on the internet the twins have become full fledged internet junkies. Ironic. Anyway I am not doing that for her I am doing it to get in other activities like reading, physical activity, and job training.
