I was a bit concerned I had not seen any posts here or on other threads, so I hope you are ok.
Unfortunately, as you may have seen from previous posts our R has now become very strained due to the fact I am starting to ask my W for assistance with the mortgage, council tax and certain bills.
I am due to return to the marital home this month when I have to vacate the property I am currently in. My W was happy to move to her parents house whuch is sitting empty until the end of August. I was due to stay until October, when all of a sudden my W has been advised NOT to leave the marital home in case I do not leave when stated.
This has caused a rift between us and I can see things getting worse because we have not agreed on a financial split either, and that is also an issue.
I believe I have been very fair to date paying all the bills at a home I am currently not living in. I am still out of work, hence I do not believe I am being unreasonable to ask for assistance as my W is working.
Julia, I also believe my W is still angry because things are not quite going her way. I think she is now involved in a PA which makes me feel numb and sick, but this has no real bearing on my current stance.
I must protect my future and that of the childrens and I hope things can be achieved on an adult basis, but at the moment I have my doubts.
On the positive side, I am having a great time with my children, and I have also re-connected with my family, though I am trying not to get them involved too much in my situation.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
