I completely understand where you are coming from and what you are saying. This is my last ditch effort. He has the papers and wants me to sign. I said I would contest it on the grounds we have never pursued professional help. He said he would fight me in court, roll the dice and would NEVER go to a therapist. I suggested the Marriage Fitness program. He reluctantly agreed. And the truth is, he's only doing it because I said if he did and it doesn't work we can move forward with what he would like to do. He has the papers, in hand and wants to give them to me. At this point he pursing me to sign. I'm pursing him to work on it. Sort of a bad spot. Sucks whole bunches.
