Thank you Sandi. You have spent much time writing to me about my situation; I can't tell you how much it means to me.

I will wait to see if he actually intiates getting together when I return to home city next weekend to retrieve my stuff from the storage unit. If he does, I will do as you suggest, if he does not, I think I will just stick to dealing with the move and head out of town.

Thank you again. I'll let you know how it goes.

Me 30
H 33
together:10 years
married:5 years
Separated: 1/23/09
living apart 5 mos and counting
"when you reach the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on"-FDR