On paper you are still married. Congratulations. Can you tell me what being married to someone is? Is it living in the same house sharing your lives? Is it making love in a shared bed? Dude! You are NOT married in your wife's mind. You have a piece of paper and two kids tying you together. The rest is nonexistent. Get a life!!!
"It is excruciating pain. It is the pain of separation, the pain of loss, the pain of dreams and expectations unrealized. It is the loss and death of a mirage."