Ian, I know you're right...dating is a nice diversion...however, the main thing is that I have a lot to do...prepare my house for selling...continue to work on myself....work on my finances that became somewhat a mess during the divorce, see what else is out there as far as a career...etc, etc, etc...

So much to do!

IN truth, I KNOW none of the men I have dated are the right one...nice guys,,,but not for me....at least not for the long haul...and as much as I am not really looking for that...it is hard for those thoughts not to just pop in there...I don't know about anything anymore...I don't even know if I really will find love again...maybe not. I think I need to prepare for all possibilities. It's the practical thing to do.

I love it when I am practical...everything makes sense then and I can rationalize anything. It's like the universe is in harmony! LOL!

And I hope the something special that comes into my life is by way of a new, exciting job, selling my old house, buying a new house, finding peace and enlightenment in my life, getting a new 4-legged baby for the Diva....

So much to look forward to...

Hugs!
Vali

Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller