Again...dont try and analyze why she doesn't ask about your plans. Look at me! I NEVER ask exh what he is doing, but I do wonder. He always wants to know our plans.
You want your wife home because she wants to be home...not because she feels guilty or needy. I wish we could smack all the WAS on this board and tell thim life doesn't have to be this complicated if they would just realize it! Doesn't work that way. You catch more flies with honey than vinegar. Be covert. Let her think you are moving on with your life and you are fantastic even without her.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!