Good for you to stay strong. I'm guessing when you offer to switch the days he's going to throw a fit even though based on the past he wasn't going to visit anyway.
As far as the custody thing good thing you posted here you can look back threw your posts and document ALL the missed visits ect.
I have a whole calendar/journal that I write in each day. Calls, texts, visits, no shows, suspected drinking, activities, etc.
I will text him mid morning and offer today.
His moms wedding is this weekend too. I haven't made a decision on that yet. I just don't know what to do. I don't want to go and pretend all is fine and exh and I are best friends. That this is the best scenario ever. I don't want his family thinking that I am in any way agreeing this is for the best. IM NOT!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
