Just saw you'd sent me a post too MsM. Thank you for the support. You'll see from my reply to PM's post that I'm in full agreement with you about the power struggle. She is very much used to getting her own way. She got it the entire time we were together and most of her life she stayed with her parents too. It is indeed going to be hard for her to let go and I'm not sure at all how I'm going to achieve that without pi$$ing her off. That's why I called it a no-win situation. I either give up on getting my son as much as I'd want or I lose my W to hatred. Not a decision I'm looking forward to.

Kev


Me: 32, Wife: 22
Son: 2
Married: 2 years
Separated: January 5th 2009

Sometimes you have to become lost before you can find yourself.