Yep, they're broken and messed up. From what I've seen, the OPs are too. But look at what they're missing and don't even realize. You can distract yourself with cellphones and OPs and stuff like that, but then you miss out on the best stuff in life: mature love and kids and all the important stuff. I guess that's why we try to focus on ourselves and not the WAS: b/c it's sad what they're doing to themselves really.