Good for you to stay strong. I'm guessing when you offer to switch the days he's going to throw a fit even though based on the past he wasn't going to visit anyway.

As far as the custody thing good thing you posted here you can look back threw your posts and document ALL the missed visits ect.

Me:40
W: 39
T: 17 years
M: 15 years
S-9
D-6
D final 11/10/2009

"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."